Today is a new day, a chance to start fresh. So, I ask myself, What is my vision for my life? What would I love? Not, what would anybody else love for me, What would I love for me?

This is the hardest question I have ever had to ask myself. Why? Because life happens with a design or without one. Maybe you are like I was and happy in your life, yet you may feel like something is missing and your not sure how to figure out what is missing or your afraid if I try, I may lose the good I have. Maybe you know you are not happy with yesterday and you really want to make changes although you’re not sure where to start.

I understand. You see, up until a few years ago, I had no design for my life. Oh, I always had plans of what I SHOULD do, that was easy. I knew I would get married, have children, take care of my family, be a good wife and mother, etc. However, I had no plans or thoughts for a college education, career, or had any idea what would light me up to become the person I wanted to be.

Why, you may ask? I think maybe, because this is the way it was in our family. No one had a college education. Men went to work and women got married, had children, and took care of the family. For example, my dad was not present for my birth, he waited in the lobby with the other dads to hear if I was a boy or girl and if mom and I were ok. Not because he did not want to be there, it just was not the way of the times.

So, at 19 I began my plan. I married my high-school sweetheart, like my parents, and our plan included 3 children, or at least my plan did… It was not long before the marriage fell apart for many reasons, which is for another day 😉 For today, what is important to know is that from that point on, my plan to have children and care for my family became one of desperation, I believe. 

I continued on in life by doing things that would ensure I could take care of them myself, as both a caregiver and financial provider.

I never asked myself what would I love? I only asked, What would it take? What do I have to do?

If you are like me, up until now you may have focused on what it would take or what is it that I have to do today to make what I want happen? What if instead you asked yourself, What would I love? and begin from there.

Today is a new day and I now know, you really can design a life you would love without loosing the good you have. 

Join me in an On-Line Vision Workshop, The Power of Vision: Mastering Your Results, this Tuesday January 19th from 7:00 PM – 8:00 PM EST, where together we do some dream building and apply 3 keys to mastering success. Space is limited so register today at: https://fb.me/e/3oYOBMknX

You are also invited to schedule a one to one strategy session to begin your journey: https://hello.dubsado.com/public/appointment-scheduler/5ded03e38c52200409d731e1/schedule?isIframe=true